James Hays McIntosh
April 16, 1951 – July 28, 2025
James Hays McIntosh, affectionately known by many as “Jimmy Mac,” passed away peacefully on Monday, July 28, 2025, at the age of 74. He was a lifelong resident of Holly Springs, Mississippi. Born April 16, 1951, he was the beloved son of the late Elton Lorraine McIntosh and Janis Hays Meyer. He was also preceded in death by his brother, Gregory Hays Meyer of Memphis, Tennessee. Jimmy grew up in Memphis, Tennessee, and Holly Springs, Mississippi.
After graduating from East High School in Memphis, he followed in his parents’ footsteps by attending the University of Mississippi from 1971 to 1974, where he earned a Bachelor of Arts and was a member of the Delta Kappa Epsilon fraternity. After college, he returned to Holly Springs and worked in the banking industry for many years. A faithful and lifelong member of First Presbyterian Church in Holly Springs, Jimmy sang in the choir and was known for his devoted service and the beautiful floral arrangements he created for the sanctuary, which brought joy to many.
Jimmy had an adventurous spirit, finding great pleasure in traveling and forming
meaningful, lasting friendships wherever he went. He traveled extensively across England, Scotland, and Switzerland, even attending school abroad for a time. Deeply proud of his McIntosh Scottish heritage, he held a special fondness for Scotland. Throughout his travels, he carefully curated a remarkable collection of antiques, porcelain, and unique works of art reflecting his eye for beauty and personal flair. Visitors to his home were always greeted with charm, warm stories, and a glimpse into his extraordinary journeys—shared through the objects he cherished and his infectious laughter that often filled the room.
His garden was a living testament to his love of beauty. Each path revealed new blooms and unexpected treasures, tended with care and joy. Jimmy was also known for his handwritten notes and elaborate dinner parties, full of wit and Southern graciousness. Similarly, his affection for the past was evident in his fondness for classic black-and-white films.
Jimmy is survived by his brother, Andrew Hays Meyer, and his wife, Barb, of Atlanta, Georgia, along with their children, Sarah Fallon (Frank), Hays Meyer (Jess), and Kakki Meyer, as well as the wife of his late brother Gregory Hays Meyer, Elise, of Memphis, Tennessee, and their children, Max Meyer and Sam Meyer. Additionally, he is survived by cousins, who held a special place in his heart, Dr. Cooper Anderson McIntosh of Paris, Tennessee; Barry Park McIntosh, Jr., and his wife, Laurie, of Paris, Tennessee; and Mary Howell McIntosh Gann and her husband, Jay, of Houston, Texas.
The family expresses immense gratitude to Jimmy’s dear friend Tracy Rondeau, whose love, selfless dedication, and care over the years stand as a true testament to their deep and lasting friendship.
A visitation will be held at the First Presbyterian Church of Holly Springs on Monday, August 4th, at 11:00 a.m., followed by a funeral service at 12:00 noon, officiated by Dr. Bob Sharman. Interment will take place afterward at Hillcrest Cemetery in a private family committal. Pallbearers include Patrick Carlton, Robert Lomenick, Park McIntosh, Max Meyer, Richard Rondeau, Ellis Stubbs, and Jack Stubbs.
Memorials may be made to the First Presbyterian Church, 164 South Memphis Street, Holly Springs, Mississippi, 38365, or to a charity of your choice.